In a move that's both heartbreaking and deeply personal, former NFL offensive lineman Charles Leno Jr. has announced his retirement, marking a poignant end to his football career on a day forever etched in his memory. This isn't just another retirement announcement; it's a story of loss, reflection, and a profound shift in priorities.
John Keim, who covers the Washington Commanders for ESPN and has been a fixture in Washington football reporting since 1994 (previously with the Washington Post, Journal Newspapers, and Washington Examiner, and author/co-author of four books, also hosting 'The John Keim Report' on ESPN Richmond radio), reported that Leno made the announcement on October 14, 2025 – exactly two years after his wife, Jen, tragically suffered a miscarriage. The timing wasn't coincidental; Leno chose to make the announcement at 2:46 p.m., the precise moment of their loss on October 14, 2023. At that time, Leno was in Atlanta preparing to play a game against the Atlanta Falcons with the Washington Commanders but ultimately did not play.
The couple's expected fourth daughter, Paitynn, was due to be born the following spring. Leno has openly shared the devastating impact the loss had on him, stating that he knew on that day in Atlanta he "was done with football." He expressed this sentiment powerfully in an Instagram post, saying, "That day changed everything for me. It changed the way I see life, the way I carry myself and most of all, it changed what matters most to me."
Leno's NFL journey spanned ten seasons. He spent seven years with the Chicago Bears, who drafted him in the seventh round of the 2014 draft, becoming a reliable presence on their offensive line. He then played his final three seasons with the Washington Commanders after being traded. The Commanders released him during the 2024 offseason, shortly after Adam Peters took over as general manager and Dan Quinn became head coach. Leno impressively started 141 games at left tackle throughout his career.
In a heartfelt three-page letter, Leno thanked fans, teammates, coaches, family, friends, and God for their support throughout his football career, reiterating the sport's significance in his life. He lauded his wife as "my rock" and expressed immense love for his daughters, Carsynn, Oaklynn, and Jordynn, stating that being their father is the "greatest role of my life."
But here's where it gets personal: Leno made it clear that the miscarriage fundamentally altered his perspective. Football, once a central focus, took a backseat to family and healing. He emphasized that his priorities had unequivocally shifted.
"To our Angel, Paitynn - This moment is for you," Leno wrote. "Daddy loves you forever. I carry you with me every day." This powerful dedication speaks volumes about the lasting impact of their loss and the profound reason behind Leno's decision to step away from the game. And this is the part most people miss: this wasn't just a career change; it was a life change, prompted by a tragedy that redefined what truly mattered.
This is a moment of profound grief and personal decision-making, and it begs the question: How much should an athlete's personal life influence their professional career? Is it admirable to prioritize family and well-being, or is there an expectation for athletes to compartmentalize their personal struggles? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
